Taylor + Solomon
A wedding proposal is a pretty big deal! No matter how many times you’ve seen it or heard about it, when it happens to you, it’s always an unforgettable experience. Some couples decide to go ring shopping together so there is an established idea of what a dream engagement ring looks like. Other times, the ring and the moment are completely a surprise to the other person. Both methods are worthy of a massive celebration.
Solomon proposed to Taylor in the Bishop’s Garden of The National Cathedral in Washington, DC. She had a few suspicions that Solomon was up to something but Solomon’s note and engagement ring put her at ease and into a world of happiness. But what happens next after the “yes” had been said and you have a shiny new piece of jewelry? There’s so much to think about, but don’t worry. You don’t have to dive into wedding planning immediately. Let’s take this one step at a time. Here’s a guide to help you navigate the exciting post-engagement phase without feeling overwhelmed.
1. Take Time to Celebrate (Just the Two of You!)
Before you rush into telling the world, take a moment to soak in this special time. Whether it’s an intimate dinner, a weekend getaway, or just a quiet evening at home, enjoy this moment together. You’ll be bombarded with questions soon enough, so cherish this time when it’s just the two of you.
2. Share the News with Family and Close Friends
Once you’ve had your private celebration, it’s time to spread the joy! Traditionally, immediate family gets the news first, followed by your closest friends. Whether you prefer phone calls, FaceTime, or in-person visits, make it personal. If you’re looking to get creative, consider sending a fun engagement announcement or a surprise visit to your loved ones.
Pro tip: Try to avoid broadcasting it on social media until your inner circle knows. You don’t want your mom or best friend finding out through an Instagram story or from a friend at the grocery store
3. Get Your Ring Sized (and Maybe Insured)
Now that you’re proudly flashing that sparkler, it’s essential to make sure it fits perfectly. If the ring is a bit too loose or tight, head to the jeweler for resizing. Usually, resizing is free if you take it back to where it was bought. Resizing can take up to 6 weeks so just make sure you can do without it in the meantime. Depending on the cost of the ring, getting an insurance policy on it could be a good idea too. The jeweler might try to push an insurance policy on you but not everyone finds it necessary or logical if you form a emotional attachment to the ring. It’s hard to replace sentimental value.
4. Brainstorm Wedding Ideas
You don’t have to make any wedding plans now but its always a good idea to look around and see whats out there. Write everything down. Create a mood board or save some wedding inspiration. Fantasize about what your dream wedding day looks like. Nothing is off the table for now.
5. Plan an Engagement Party (If You Want One)
Some couples love the idea of throwing an engagement party, while others prefer to keep things low-key. If you’re excited to celebrate with friends and family, start thinking about where and when to host your engagement party. It doesn’t need to be extravagant—just a fun way to kick off the wedding journey surrounded by your closest loved ones.
6. Relax and Enjoy This New Chapter
Above all, don’t forget to breathe and enjoy this new chapter. Take things one step at a time, communicate with your partner, and remember that this journey is about celebrating your love and commitment to each other.
Engagement is an exciting time, filled with possibilities and dreams for the future. By taking a thoughtful approach to the early steps, you’ll set yourself up for a joyful, stress-free wedding planning process—and more importantly, a lifetime of happiness with the person you love.
